Our guest list has gotten out of control with our friends. My fiance' is a gutiarist in the local scene and we've made a bunch of great friendships through the years.Problem is, I can't justify paying $27 a plate for these people, but I'd love to have them come to the reception for the dance and celebration.SO.. has anyone ever split the guest list like this? is it rude? How do you word the second invite?I don't want to offend anyone but I'd love to be able to have all our friends celebrate, and honestly they are more "reception" type people anyway.