So I am the last of my close friends to get married, and so the bachelorette party has a few problems. I had great, wild, fun, girl bonding bashes for so many of my friends and I can't help but kinda want that for myself, but all of my bridesmaids are coming in from out of town, and they have already come in once for my bridal shower and put a lot of money and work into making it a very special event. Also I have 2 matrons of honor and no maids of honor, One is married and will be traveling with her husband who doesn't know my fiance and his friends very well, and the other is having a baby 2 weeks before my wedding. Yep. So I have concluded that we will just combine the bachelorette party and the lingerie shower and have it right before the wedding. I think we are just going to have it at my house so is it ok for me to just plan it and keep it really simple. They have already done so much, and I think going out with new baby and all is out of the question. Is that weird though? I'm gonna keep it simple and just make it possible for as many people to come and just have some good time together, but I feel like I'm inviting people to my own birthday party or something. I would rather just send out a facebook invite and not bother my bridesmaids with it.