I just want to vent, I didnt know marrying my own kind (indian guy) would be so tough. My future in laws have always hated me..for no reason besides the fact am not the women they chose as a arrange marriage prospect for their son. They made my future man swear to not pay a penny towards the wedding. Me and my parents are paying for the entire wedding including the reception with no help from anyone else or him. I want to have a very nice wedding so I am saving up a lot..and my dad is expect the cost to be around 60k, I feel so bad putting my parents through this