I sent a copy of a customized wedding invitation we are planning to get with traditional wording for the brides parents hosting to my future mother-in-law so she could feel "included" in our wedding planning process since my fiance's parents live 1600 miles away from where the wedding will be held.The response back wasn't, "oh those are nice," but "you should include our names on the invitation."The issue turned into a feud between my mother and my future mother-in-law. My mother only wants their names on the invitation because they are the ones paying for the wedding, but my fiance's mother wants their names on the invitation too because it is their son...I'm at my wits on this whole issue on what is right or wrong. I want the traditional wording. It's my parents giving me away, not the other way around, but I don't want a huge fight over it either.At the end of the day its just about our wedding and not some stupid wording on an invitation. Its about bringing families together and sharing memories....I need some help....