Sorry all my posts are so long ladies - but this is a doozy.So I haven't spoken to FI in a while about the wedding - I don't want him to get "wedding'd out" - but I brought it up yesterday, since we have a couple "to-dos" to complete on his part (tuxes and the like). So he starts freaking out about a few things...(and when I say freaking out, I don't literally mean having a fit, much less dramatic than that)1) We had previously discussed the tuxes and gotten an idea online which ones he would want for himself and the GM. So when I bring it up yesterday, he said that he didn't want his GM to wear yellow vests (the color of the BM dresses). Would it look weird for the GM to have black vests/ties while the girls wear yellow (my BMs would probably kill me if the GM get to wear black and they don't though...)2) Our wedding, right now, is traditional - nothing crazy going on - which we both agreed on in the beginning. Now he feels like it won't reflect his personality, or that it will be too stuffy. (He is an artist)(and I don't think it will be stuffy). Any suggestions as how to make it not stuffy but keep the locations? He suggested hiring a juggling act - but I'm looking for something *slightly* more classy than that.3) He is now rethinking the date since his bosses birthday is on the same date - and as he puts it, he doesn't want to be in any way reminded of his boss when we are celebrating our anniverary. Ok. Fine. But I don't want to change the date of the wedding since everything is planned and I may loose a deposit or something (plus it would be a huge pain for something I don't consider to be that big of a deal - but he does). SO - he suggested we get married in Vegas on Valentines Day...then just have the wedding on the scheduled day. I wouldn't mind that - but I'm trying to gauge what others may think. Is that crazy?Help!