I'm new to the boards but decided maybe someone on here could help? We are having a VERY small wedding (50 people max)..we invited immediate family and friends but it seems like everyone is inviting a guest! How do we nicely tell them there is no room? I have no idea on how to do this politely. I have told some family members but they still insist on bringing boyfriends and girlfriends. Now we are stuck with a count of 70+ people. GRRR. I'm ready to elope.