I stumbled upon this top 10 South Asian wedding music hit list from DJ Magic Mike and kind of wished I'd seen it before my wedding. So I'm passing it along to all you brides to be. I imagine most of the SA ladies already know these popular songs, but for the non-SA brides who don't know much about SA music, this might be helpful!
http://thesaricladbride.com/2009/10/dj-magic-mikes-top-ten-wedding-playlist/