Ok, technically I'm not newly engaged, its been about five months and the wedding is only a month away, but since its about the ring, I figured I'd ask here.
I'm not sure how I feel about the ring he got me. He insisted on picking it out himself and having it be a surprise. And I always told him I'd like what ever he got me, figuring he knew what my prefences were and just because I love him so very much. However he the ring he got me is really not working out. It's not an engagement ring, its a birthstone ring. So we cannot find any bands that fit with it at all. They can't even make one to custom fit it because it's so odd. And then it's gold, which I can't stand. But I don't want to hurt his feelings! He was so proud that he got my birthstone and that he was able to pay for it on his own (this was before he got his job). But everytime I look down at my finger, I don't feel happy about it at all, it just feels out of place. It's soo not me. I've been wearing it for a couple months now, hoping it would grow on me, but really it's only gotten worse.
Should I tell him? I feel so selfish and silly, after all its just a ring, right? But ifs that's true then why do I feel so bad about it? Help!