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I give up!

Along with the death of FI's grandfather I found out tonight that my uncle who has cancer has been moved to intensive care. He is very very ill, but this is just the icing on the cake. I told FI tonight I want to cancel the wedding and just elope! Im so sick and tired of bad news.

Re: I give up!

  • edited December 2011
    I am so sorry to hear about this black cloud that has moved in... this should be a time of happiness for you both. Stay strong. You have waited for your day for so long and you deserve something positive and lovely (and it will be - for all involved). If you need anything, get on the Knottie bat phone. We are here for you. <3 YB
    Christina 10.26.08
  • aiwanickiaiwanicki member
    edited December 2011
    So sorry for your loss! Keep your head up!<3
  • edited December 2011
    My wish is that your wedding will be an amazing celebration amongst all this terrible news.  I hope it truly proves that there is always something to look forward to when times seem to be at their worst.  Allow yourself to feel the negative stuff out right now, don't suppress it or skim over it.  But, at the same time, don't lose sight of the most amazing day you have worked so hard to plan for the two of you, and your families.  Find a way to honor those who no longer can be with you, but don't focus on it.  Let it be a way for your families to feel true happiness during this rough time.  We're here for you too.
  • edited December 2011
    Ditto everything chayer said. Thinking of you, amanda! Lots of vibes still headed your way.
  • EDK2010EDK2010 member
    edited December 2011
    Another ditto for everything Chayer said.Sending positive and happy thoughts your way!
    TTC #1 Since July 2011
    BFP #1 2/28/12- 3/3/12 CP at 4w3d
    BFP #2 4/1/12- 5/7/12 Missed M/C at 8w4d (measuring 6w3d)
    TTC on hold until December
  • edited December 2011
    ditto, ditto, ditto. i truly believe that you will have a wonderful day, made ever more special and meaningful by the reminder of how precious life is. you will get through this! xo
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