I'm the MOH and there are 2 other BM. One BM can't make it to the shower/bach party. The other one is helping me.Would it be tacky to ask the 3rd BM help in any way she can? I could really use the help since it's all on me, although I feel like she might think that I didn't accommodate her by rescheduling the shower. I could not fly in at any other time as I'm the only one out of state.