My fiance and I are getting married on 1/2/10, and nobody has offered to throw a shower. My bridesmaids are too busy and live too far away so I know they won't do it..I didn't think I would care, I have been so busy with school that I haven't really been able to enjoy any of the wedding planning. Not having a shower kinda makes me feel sad, because I feel like it is the one part of the experience I could actually enjoy..I don't think it is appropriate for me to ask someone to do it, but what do I do?