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VENT!

siba1119siba1119 member
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I love my sister, don't get me wrong, but there are a few things that are bugging me about her.   First off when we got engaged not 3 days later does she announce to EVERYONE that she was pregnant.  Fine whatever.  NOW we are getting married in less than 2 weeks and she's calling me to go over HER centerpieces and to do dress fittings for her wedding which is a YEAR away.  WTF?!?! Can't I have my 'moment' like ever?
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  • Kahtie41Kahtie41
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    Geez, sounds like she's jumping the gun on some of her plans!  Your wedding is only days away, she should drop until yours is over.  Besides, in the final two weeks your brain is probably bursting enough with your own plans... there's no more room to think about your sister's wedding right now!
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  • gabi829gabi829 member
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    WE know that it's your moment!!!  I hope you enjoy it as much as possible!
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  • sarlahsarlah
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    I agree with Kahtie... I'm sorry you feel like you aren't getting your moment! That just sucks. Since FBIL and his wife are expecting another baby, FIL's have basically "checked out" of our wedding and LIFE. It's really sad/frustrating. I understand they always wanted grand-kids and everything - I get it, but you know... their SON is getting married, they could at least pretend they give a cr@p anymore. It probably doesn't help any that we have both pretty much told them we don't think we even want to have kids.Umm... I think I just stole your vent moment... Sorry :(
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  • alisonpilgrim610alisonpilgrim610
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    That's crappy!I would straight up tell her...Hey, look it, I'm sorry, but I really can't be there for you right now. I'm getting married in 2 weeks. You still have a year left. Can we focus on YOUR wedding AFTER mine is over?I know she's family, but sometimes people in general are so rude. Family or not.
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  • SandalGirlSandalGirl
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    I'm sorry your sister can't allow you to have a moment.  I think it's all about the lovely sister sibling rivalry.  I agree with pp.  Tell your sister you would love to help her when your day is over :)
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  • allakarasikallakarasik
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    Wow, at the moment I'm happy that I dont have a sister. I agree with the other posters, just tell her that once all of your stuff is done you will be more than happy to help her out. If I was you I would also follow that up with letting her know that it would be well appreciated if she put her planning on hold for the next few weeks in order to help you finish up all of your last minute planning/arrends. Maybe that would put her back in her place for awhile.
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