Here is the situation. I have two brothers, my fiance has two brothers. When talking to one of his brothers about the wedding party, the brother said that he would not mind being an usher because he does not like being in the "lime light" as a groomsman. This worked out great for our wedding party because we would each have a brother as a groomsman and each have a brother as an usher. So, we planned our wedding party with this in mind and asked everyone we needed to ask. Then we find out that his brother is not happy about being an usher and is supposedly upset about it. So.....what are we to do. One option is to switch it so that both his brothers are groomsman and both my brothers are ushers (which hurts me because I would like one of my brothers to be a groomsman). Another option is to simply add his brother as a groomsman and get another bridesmaid (not a problem) except that would make 7 groomsman and 7 bridesmaid, which I think is too much! Part of me wants to say, too bad since he did offer to be an usher and did not seem to have a problem with it. Should it be our problem that he was not honest with us? I also understand how important family is to both of us and we do not want anyone upset, but we are struggling with what to do. Sorry for the long post, but any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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