I've seen on here that people mention you should know better than to bring gifts to the actual wedding. While I understand the point, that is NOT customary in general with most of the people I know.
FI's family gives almost exclusively cash, and they take that to the wedding. My family generally gives gifts, and if the wedding is local, they take them to the wedding. If it requires them to travel, they ship gifts. Whether the wedding is local for the B&G is not part of that equation.
And, I find that this holds true for many of my friends as well (when to take things to the wedding). In fact, some people think it looks really sad for there to NOT be an overflowing gift table at the wedding.
Thoughts? What do you do? What have you seen? Do you think it's regional?
DIY & Planning
Mom to J: 2011
Mom to H: 2014
Dresses may be easier to take in than let out, but guest lists are not. -- kate51485