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Reading the last few posts made me wonder.  What's the stupidest thing your SO ever did in your relationship?

I'll start.  On our first Valentine's Day together, somehow FI's ex-girlfriend came up.  And he mentioned how great her fellatio skills were...because she had a tongue ring.  I was LIVID then, but I think it's hilarious now.

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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    Abandoning me in a hotel room that I paid for in the middle of the night to go meet a guy friend at a bar on Valentine's day.

    It's already written in a previous post, but I think it deserves to be stated twice.
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  • SeaTea02SeaTea02
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    edited December 2011
    Ahhh

    so BF and I were super young when we started dating. He held another girls hand once. when we first started dating. He swears it was only for a picture and for a moment.... but when i saw that picture like two years later I freeeeeaked on him. If I had seen it or known about it when it happened we wouldn't be together now.

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  • noelle24noelle24
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    edited December 2011

    H and I were long distance for 5 years.  In that first year, I came to visit him for the a weekend.  He spent 14 hours on Saturday at work, and 8 hours on Sunday at work.  His hours are flexible, so this wasn't something he was forced to do. I was LIVID.  He got much better after that though, clearly.

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  • Beads921Beads921 member
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    edited December 2011
    He has not done anything so terrible that I can think of it off the top of my head. Although, he's made me pretty happy tonight - he brought me home 2 dairy milks because I told him I was having a crappy day and wanted chocolate. He NEVER does stuff like this, ever, it's just not really him, so I'm practically over the moon and therefore not as likely to come up with something negative.

    The worst thing I can think of, which actually was/is pretty bad, was when he was the best man in his brother's wedding. He was a total asshole to me all day - I'd have been better to stay at home. He just did not care that I was there, or care about what I might have needed from him that day. His singular focus was on being best man (no, focus was not on his brother or the wedding, it was his role in it). Ok, so fine. He was stressed. But when he just disappeared for half an hour and came back stoned out of his mind was the final straw (smoked some weed with the maid of honour and another groomsman). He was already hammered, so he was truly fucked after that. I guess after a while he got why I was upset but I haven't forgotten it. He's never properly apologized, either, which makes it worse. Oh ya, did I mention my parents were there and my Dad figured out what happened? Makes it that much better. What a mess.
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  • Goldlie11Goldlie11
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    edited December 2011
    FI told me that growing up, his mom was a much better housekeeper than I am.  Mind you she was a SAHM and I work 2 jobs.  Of course I hit him with the old, "do it yourself if you don't like the way I clean".
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  • bethsmilesbethsmiles member
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    edited December 2011
    When we were doing long distance there was a day when I just felt like sh!t. It had been a horrible day, everything had gone wrong, and I really needed his support. We were in different time zones (i was on the East coast with my family for 2 weeks) so I called him when I was getting ready to go to bed and just end that stupid day. Well he was out with friends that night and instead of just going off for 5 minutes where it was quiet or telling his friends to be quiet for 5 minutes he pretty much blew me off. I was livid. Obliviously I was more emotional because the day had sucked so much already but he wasn't even acting like he cared. It turned into this huge fight. But if he had just taken 5 minutes to care when I called it would've been no big deal.


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  • deburnindeburnin member
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    edited December 2011
    He was a douche for an entire summer... It's a long story and not one I feel comfortable sharing. We both grew as people and as a couple. He finally figured out what he wanted and the rest is history. It was one of the most difficult things we've ever been through. We now call it his douche phase. It's amusing because our close group of friends know about it so they'll ask "Hey why weren't you there when we did [blank]" and he/I can simply reply "It was when I/he was being a douche."
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  • GreenPepperBurgerGreenPepperBurger
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    edited December 2011
    Peach Snapple Incident (see my post for details). Although we were both at fault, and it wasn't even a big deal, in retrospect.
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  • SeaTea02SeaTea02
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    edited December 2011
    I want to hear juicy stuff: any cheating incidents?

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  • Beads921Beads921 member
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    edited December 2011
    No cheating incidents here. Cheating is a deal breaker for me, so if that happens (which it won't), BF will no longer be BF.
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  • coastiegrl25coastiegrl25 member
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    edited December 2011
    My man and I had what we call the douche month.  Last Dec we had been together for 2 months and his ex gf started callin him. Well he started calling her and he ended up picking her up one time to take her to an interview. This was unbeknowst to me, but his mom had basically ratted him out.  I was furious. I found this out while I was down at his parents house but came back to the house and packed all my stuff and was leaving.  Well he came chasing after me basically in tears and begged me to stay. I agreed as long as he never talked to her again. I understood that he still had feelings for her, and he didn't do anything with her, but it wasn't fair to me. 

    Well she had stopped calling completely and he stopped calling her. I asked why she stopped, and he told me that she asked if he'd take her back and he told her no. Since then he has done so much to make it up to me.  He to this day brings it up about how stupid he was that he was about to lose the best thing to ever happen to him for some stupid crazy douchetwat.
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  • noelle24noelle24
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    edited December 2011
    Cheating is a dealbreaker for me in 99% of cases.  The only possible way I would even *consider* not divorcing H over cheating was if it was a 1 night stand, he told me himself, and was clearly wretched over it. Even then though, I don't know how I'd get past the betrayal.
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  • loves2shop4shoesloves2shop4shoes member
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    edited December 2011
    No cheating from FI.  I'd kick his ass to the curb, but not before I fed him his castrated balls.

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  • SeaTea02SeaTea02
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    edited December 2011
    Yes, cheating is a deal breaker for me too. Not everyone feels that way though. I was just hoping for some juicy stuff :)

    costie's is pretty juicy.

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  • coastiegrl25coastiegrl25 member
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    edited December 2011
    Yea. Wasn't really cheating but it wasn't not cheating either. It was a fine line. In the end, I knew he was worth fighting for and so was I. So after he did that he had to fight to get me to trust him again.  That story was a long story short type thing. But you get the drift of what happened.  He rushed into a relationship with me before he was over her. He sorted through those feelings and I am the winner :). But alas, he will never live the "douche month" down. Not from what I say but from his feelings.
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