Hey everyone, I was just looking for some advice. We are having a no kids wedding with the exception of the children in the wedding, and have made it very clear children are not invited. Even so we have had people assume it was ok and had to politely correct them with no issues so far. However I recently had a friend send a RSVP back with her, her husband and her baby on it. Now I was planning on making an exception for another friend whose baby will only be one month old by the wedding as I feel that is too young to easily leave behind, but this friend has a nine month old. Is it rude for me to request they leave their baby behind? My FI feels like he sdhould not come, that its unfair to our other guest, but most other guest with children their kids are all a few years old. Is nine months too young to leave behind? Would it be unfair for me to make an exception for the one month old but not the nine month old? I would really appreciate any input.