I'm having a dilema and need advice:
We're planning on doing a Jack N' Jill, but trying to get a location that let's us sell tickets @ the door and where we can bring in our own alcohol, that doesn't cost $500 to rent.
I'm starting to feel like I'm the one, not my MOH or BP who'll be planning most of it, I think I've had enough stress trying to plan a close to perfect wedding.
My FI's friends will probably do a bachelor thing anyway, so I'm starting to think maybe a bridal shower would be less stressful. Maybe something simple @ our house with drinks and appetizers, I went to one like that last year and it was personal, yet informal.
I haven't discussed this w/my FI yet, I'm not sure what he would say, I'll discuss w/him soon.
P.S. Should I be planning the Jack n' Jill or is it the BP's responsibility? I don't want to be a bridezilla!!