I am having a DW in Southern California where my parents live. I happened to be browsing the facebook page of a family friend and I noticed that she has an album of cookies and cupcakes that she's made. They looked amazing so I shot her an email asking if she would consider making the cupcakes for our wedding. She was really excited about the idea and had lots of great thoughts on how to do it. Well we recently flew out to look at the venue and at the same time stopped by to discuss the cupcakes with her. While we were talking she told us in order to save her some time she planned on buying the actual cupcakes already made and just icing them herself. FI and I were not really thrilled with that idea as we were under the impression that she would be actually baking them herself. While we were in town we did try a professional cupcake bakery and it was the best cupcakes we've ever had. So we want to use the professionals but don't know how to break the news to our family friend. Any suggestions? TIA!