Originally my fiance and I were each going to choose 4 people for a total of 8. However when one of the potential bridesmaids found out I was engaged all she could say was "are you pregnant?" and then continued to make terrible remarks about me. Mind you this potential BM is a cousin who lives far away and we hardly keep in contact anymore. After the terrible conversation I don't want to have her part of the party, but my fiance has alreay firmly picked his 4. Should I still ask her to be apart of it to keep numbers equal or should we just try to narrow his picks down to 3? Any advice would help.