Please don't feel bad. I'm not going through anything any worse than anyone else. In fact, as far as cancer-folks go, I've got it pretty easy. I haven't had any issue w/ our insurance company or my doctors. I don't have a job giving me troubles about missing work. I don't have any kids to take care of. DH & I have plenty of money saved just in case. I've got tons of support. I get to eat ice cream and take naps as often as I want. I'm not missing any school.
Go ahead and complain. Don't revere my pesky tumor. Pay it no attention.
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