I'm getting married in 9 days on June 18th and I'm starting to feel really weird about the whole thing. I'm 27 and my fiance is almost 30 when we get married we've literally been together 2 years from that exact date. We met online thru E-Harmony and went on our first date 6-18-2008 (hence 6-18-2010 we're getting married).
Some similarities between myself and my fiance are almost creepy (not in a bad way but that someone could go through pretty much the exact as same thing as you at the exact same time and you don't even know them).
My fiance has never been married and I've been married once I think I just feel this weird stigma that I'm 27 and going on a 2nd marriage and that we're having a pretty big and lavish wedding (we're paying for this entirely ourselves btw).
I guess I just feel like people think I'm making a fool of myself with this big 2nd wedding when my first marriage lasted a year and a half. My ex-husband met someone on the internet and within and a few months filed for divore he was my highschool sweetheart and when we got divorced we had been together for 7 years including our marriage.
My fiance has never been married, but his first "serious" relationship up and left him when he came home from a business trip after they'd just signed a year lease to live together and had only been in the apt for 6 weeks. Here's the weird part my ex decided to leave Aug 2007 his ex Sept 2007 (weird I know).
I guess I'm just starting to feel like maybe I'm a dud or something I mean I'm only 27 and going on a 2nd marriage and I just feel like family mainly are talking behind my back that I'm putting on a show since the first one didn't last. Am I making a mountain out of a molehill or do I have a legimate right to be concerned that I look really foolish???????????????
Off Ortho Evra Birth Control Patch-Feb. 2011
Began TTC March 2011
8/30/11- U/S results normal,structural appearance normal,
possibly partial sub-septate uterus????
Sept 2011 CD 20 Check- Progesterone normal/indicates ovulation at a 12
9/14/11 CD 3 blood work- Estrogen Normal-35 FSH levels-5.9
9/30/2011- S/A- Results GOOD
10/7/2011- Surprise BFP!!!!!!!!
10/12/2011- MC Confirmed CP at roughly 4wks 2 days
EDD:6/18/2012 Our 2 yr. Anniversary
10/13/2011- Follow up consult with OB and lay out a treatment plan
10/20/11 MRI with/without contrast uterus labeled as Arcuate uterine abnormality, small cyst detected on left ovary.
End October 2011- Fired Original OB/switched and interviewed several practices with new OB and Love her!
12/02/11- HSG uterus looks perfect with no abnormalities detected and tubes clear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!