Just bummed and need to vent....
So I'm a poor graduate student...in a doctoral program...so even though I'm in my 3rd year, there's no paycheck in sight.
FI works full time but doesn't make enough to support the 2 of us.
Once we got engaged, I moved in with him and his father "temporarily." Otherwise, we would have been doing the 2 hour commute and it just made more sense for me to be up there for school/internships/etc.
He's been trying like crazy to change jobs so we can afford our own apartment. His boss just denied him the opportunity to post out and apply for something that looked really promising. So now I'm deflated and frustrated.
I hate living with his father but I'm also not in a position to complain. I'm thankful for a place to stay but this summer will mark the 2 year point of living there. I think, more than anything, I'm freaking out at the idea of being a married couple and living there....