When I bought my dress I also tried on veils, one in particular I really liked but since it was almost $200 I figured I could find a better alternative. Last week in the classifieds I found a lady selling the exact same veil for $40, we've been emailing back and forth for about a week and NOW she wants me to send her a check or cash for $40 before she'll send the veil.
I don't want to be scammed out of $40!! (even if she honestly isn't trying to scam me, I don't want to just send $$) What can I do?
EDIT: I meant to say that it was in theknot classifieds, and she isn't local, she lives in NJ and I in IN. and obviously I understand she doesn't want to be scammed as well.