Are there such things?
Is one supposed to decline parties/showers to be held in their honor when these parties are organized/thrown by those who are not invited to the wedding?
For example, in my particular instance I have an office full of women who I am not inviting to the wedding due to space constraints. Unfortunately I just couldn't swing it.
They, of their own volition, decided to throw me a shower and they are aware they're not invited to the wedding. Subsequently they also invited a whole bunch of women who also are not invited to the wedding. They are REALLY excited about this party, despite being fully aware that they aren't invited to the wedding. Personally I think they just like the excuse to throw a party.
I feel bad, I know that ettiquette says no wedding related parties with people who aren't invited to the whole shindig. Is there a disclaimer for those who knew they weren't invited and then organized something anyway?
April 2013 March Siggy - Bridesmaid Dress