I got engaged two months ago to my long-time boyfriend (we have been together since high school). He is VERY MUCH the "saver" in the relationship and hates talking about spending money.
I am budget conscious too, but I guess I have more expensive taste. We have looked at a few venues so far and one of the lowest estimations we got for the WHOLE wedding (all-inclusive - food, dj, pics, etc) would be right around $13,000. He FREAKED out at this number. I think he doesn't have any idea what weddings really cost and that 13,000 is FANTASTIC in our area (san jose, CA).
The problem is, I don't love that venue, I love one that will cost closer to $20-25,000... Since we won't be married until 2015 or 2016 (a lot of changes going on in our lives to have it sooner) I do not see this as unreasonable because we have so much time to save..
Am I being rediculous? this is my WEDDING, a ONE DAY thing so I just keep thinking it needs to be what I want, which I do not think is unreasonable..
On the other hand, we will be moving out soon and have other things we will need to pay for...
Any advice?