Therapy Thursday

acaponi87 · March 2012

Holy crap Chelslamb! That's insane. I'm so sorry you are having to deal with that circus wreck.

Ash61612 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_therapy-thursday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:a3dbef5a-0770-41e0-b9a8-d412c5869d47Post:0466658d-d8de-40b1-aa20-5fef7493a5f5">Re: Therapy Thursday</a>:
[QUOTE]Tomorrow is a big day for our family. I am stressed to the max and just want mediation to go smoothly and be done and over with so we can move forward. *sigh*
Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]
T&P's that is goes well. Let us know how it goes. ((hugs))

Megbo2012 · March 2012

Wow Chels, wtf are they supposed to do? She honestly expected them to work without pay for 3 months? J is floffing cray.

Ash61612 · March 2012

@chelseamb, I missed this post too!! I am so sorry you are going through that. That has to be annoying.

And I wouldn't want to hear the word abandon anymore if I were you either! (hugs)

kelsey+brandon · March 2012

Thoughts and prayers and lots of hugs to both our Chelseas!!!

I'm so sorry y'all are both going through this!

daria24 · March 2012

I am in shock, my venue called because we were supposed to have a big planning meeting on Monday-my coordinator's husband was killed in a car accident. I feel so awful for her, she just had her third baby in December. I can't imagine what she's going through.

Zimsgirl · March 2012

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[QUOTE]I am in shock, my venue called because we were supposed to have a big planning meeting on Monday-my coordinator's husband was killed in a car accident. I feel so awful for her, she just had her third baby in December. I can't imagine what she's going through.
Posted by daria24[/QUOTE]
Oh my gosh that is so sad!

Ash61612 · March 2012

Daria, that is so sad!

chelseakopperud · March 2012

Daria- THat is so incredibly sad.

Megbo2012 · March 2012

Wow Daria that's terrible!

diamondx423 · March 2012

There are some really horrible things that people are venting about today (Chelsx2 and Daria), so my whining about prepping a presentation for tomorrow seems even more petty.

T&Ps all around!

midgetthemighty · March 2012

Wow Daria, that's so sad.

daria24 · March 2012

Chels-your school situation sounds so awful, I hate how teachers always seem to be "the bad guys" in these situations in the public eye. I certainly wouldn't work for two months without getting paid, when you have no idea when your next paycheck could be coming.

MMRoberts11 · March 2012

T&Ps to all those that need it.

My only complaint right now is that I've been sick for about a week and I think it's developed into pneumonia.... ugh.

Ash61612 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]T&Ps to all those that need it. My only complaint right now is that I've been sick for about a week and I think it's developed into pneumonia.... ugh.
Posted by MMRoberts11[/QUOTE]

oh no, I hope you feel better soon. have you gone to see a dr? get a chest x-ray done?

sweet_melissa81 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]Tomorrow is a big day for our family. I am stressed to the max and just want mediation to go smoothly and be done and over with so we can move forward. *sigh*
Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]

I will pray for you guys that tomorrow goes smoothly.

MMRoberts11 · March 2012

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Therapy Thursday : oh no, I hope you feel better soon. have you gone to see a dr? get a chest x-ray done?
Posted by Ash61612[/QUOTE]

Thanks. I'm going tomorrow to the dr. I actually did an x-ray at work today to get it done earlier (and for free).

janeash · March 2012

Wow.....bad news board today! T&P's for everyone!!!

Little rant from me:

I am getting really sick of hearing "I will have this to you by______" and then not getting it by that date.....usually a few days, or even weeks later! I think if it's not absolutely guaranteed to be ready by that date, give me the worst possible scenario so that I'm not disappointed/impatient...that way, if I get it early, it will just be a pleasant surprise!

I am finding this very common in everything I am doing for this wedding. I know it makes me sound like a bridezilla to be impatient but I really just want to start getting things checked off the list so that I don't have to be so stressed out right before the wedding!!!

sweetcanadian1979 · March 2012

Sorry Midge, tbh i would have your parents phone them & ask why the whole family is not included in the invitation if you all are that close then they should be able to phone them . Otherwise i would only reply with 3, when they show up with your brother asking why you aren't there i would just say sorry but she wasn't invited.

Good luck Chelsea, i hope all goes well tomorrow.

kfudge, stop biling him out & making it your problem. As long as he has people to run to he will never have the motivation to change. have you ever seen the show intervention? He knows he can screw up however & you will all help him so he doesn't care.

kriskenny, he is actually right. My son lives with my grandma during the schoolweek. If he got punished (in whichever way) there it is worse for him to get punished again at my house. If someone else has dealt with it getting it dealt with again (other than a lecture) is not good for the child.

Why should they get double punished because 2 adults can't work together & co-parent properly together(my gram & i don't get a long either), she punished him by being violent with him (wrong on all levels) so in no way can your FH add to that, it only makes the kid hate both parents in the end, not that he should get away with it but his mom hit him because of his behavior, how do you think anything else will be effective? Think about it, if you get past the emotional part it will make sense to you.

What a crappy situation Chels, I would be pissed off too. Poor kids. Like the principal would go months without pay. Those teachers can not afford to work for free. Just one more thing that makes me glad i live in canada, we would never have to worry about that, our school system is so much different (not saying it is better) but all our teachers are on contract, they all get paid, they would never have to worry about such thing, not public schools anyways.

I responded in your other thread Daria, how sad

I don't really have much of a vent but i am being selfish. What a bad week for fiance to get so sick, we had a full 2 day plan & romantic getaway set up for yesterday in the city.

Tomorrow we are supposed to go to a private club to hear my band play (army & navy vetran club, not club as in dance club). I bought the membership & will still go, but hoping he still comes, he doesn't have to dance, is not in terrible pain (just uncomfortable a bit) so i am hoping he will feel up to coming. I will go without him but i prefer him to come with me. I remember the band, he did not pay them any attention at his cousins wedding so i just want him to come hear them again.

Saturday he was supposed to go to Monster Jam with austin, it was a surprise, he has asked to go for 4 years now & this year i finally bought the tickets. I even got pit passes so they can go to the pit & meet the drivers & see the trucks. G can not sit in a vehicle with all the bumps so i called my dad & asked him to take austin. He will, they will have fun & get to bond as well, but it would have been nicer if he had that moment with g but ah well, i am just happy he gets to go.

sweetcanadian1979 · March 2012

Oh i do have a vent though. This chick i work with had some major problems saturday & i got numerous complaints. She does not have the proper attitude to deal with the clients at all. She is very rude.

Anyways for whatever reason she must be mad at me, maybe because i told my boss all about it, not sure but morally i could not keep to myself.

She has asked me to take her shifts 3 times & i have been able to do it twice, even when i had lots of appointments & would not sleep. I have also picked her up & taken her to work twice for free just to help her out when her car got torched & she had to wait on insurance money.

She refused to switch me shifts the other night so i got another girl to, they had switched shifts prior to that for the day i am picking up so i said i would do the 3-11 for the one who i switched with. Now the one who is being a b*tch told my boss she did not authorize a switch with me.

No you dumbass, i was off that night & took M's shift so that i would not lose a shift, to replace the one i gave up, you switched her first. Idk wtf she is thinking but she told them she would not do the 11-7, when asked if i would do the 11-7 i said nope, that is not the shift i switched for & i have to take G to the doctor as a follow up to this surgery.

I will NEVER take a shift for her again, F*** that, i'm sorry but i do not forgive & forget. I may need the money extra shifts bring me but i am totally tit for tat & if you never help me i will never help you again. Now she has no one because M had to put in her last 2 weeks. Good luck now you dumb b*tch.

CvilleClaire · March 2012

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[QUOTE]I still have a job here (I'm one of the like 4 teachrs who stayed because our contracts protect us) but these poor kids are so upset and feel so abandoned. I am in such a horrible position right now.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]I just watched a TV report about it. I'm so, so sorry. :( For what it's worth, the report I saw was very pro-teacher. I hope it works out!!!

CvilleClaire · March 2012

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[QUOTE]Tomorrow is a big day for our family. I am stressed to the max and just want mediation to go smoothly and be done and over with so we can move forward. *sigh*
Posted by chelseakopperud[/QUOTE]I hope things work out.

I have a friend who is dealing with something similar (she married a man with three kids). A thinking, loving person wants stability for children. The ex is constantly changing things up. The husband is afraid to tick her off. So, the ex is almost a wrecking ball in their lives. They wonder why the little girls have problems at school?

It infuriates me that they are so immature as to use their children as pawns this way. My poor friend is marginalized and not treated as a co-parent. As if one needs to birth a child to know that there is a better arrangement for these kids?!?

midgetthemighty · March 2012

Bonnie, I'm sure they'll talk to them about it. We do have a legitimate question considering I still live there and my brother is over 18. If they were following that silly "rule" where you send seperate invitations to adults in the same household over 18, they failed. Which three adults did they invite? For sure my parents, but no one else's name is listed.

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