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Lets Play Househunters

I'm going to post pictures of 3 houses. You tell me which to buy.

House 1:
Price: Highest (by a substantial amount)
Location: A block from the highway (as in you can hear and see it), in a town slightly north of our target area. BUT, walkable to a nice little downtown with shops and restaurants.
Features: 3 bed/2 bath 1380 sq ft. Really nice yard. Solar panels, all kinds of green updates. Cute little sun room/breakfast nook off the kitchen. Master bath is well-updated but TINY. All the rooms are on the small side.

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Re: Lets Play Househunters

  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    ugh, what did I do wrong? the images are clicky at least.
  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011

    I love this game!  Hurray up and give me choices!!

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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    Also, tell us what commutes are from each.  I count that as highly important info.
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  • tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011
    ::repeatedly clicking refresh::
  • DG1DG1 member
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    edited December 2011

    Well, the yard is stunning. And the house is adorable with a lot of character.

    But 1300sf? How long are you planning to be in this house, and what life stages will that include?  Obviously, you can have lots of kids and pets in any size house - people do it all the time - but *I* wouldn't want to have to squeeze into a space like that if I didn't have to.

    Then again, if it's just the 2 of you and you'll move before big family changes, it's pretty danged cute.
    (ETA - that's for House 1)

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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    House 2:
    Price: Mid range, very comfortable amount for us.
    Location: Right in the town we want to be in, but not walkable to downtown. About 2 miles to anything interesting.
    Features: 3 bed/2 bath, 1430 sq ft. Gorgeous high ceilings, amazing kitchen, nice landscaping/big yard. Rooms aren't tiny, bathrooms are not spectacular, but nice enough. Possibly major annoyance: the garage, which is where the washer and dryer are, is technically attached, but has a separate door, so I'd have to go outside to do laundry.

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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    Why do you want a big bathroom? You shower and sht in it. And it has to be cleaned. I am a tiny bathroom fan (hence us buying a house with three tiny bathrooms). 

    Are the main living areas a good size? How's the kitchen (and does it matter)? What about storage? Have you looked up the crime statistics relative to where you already live/have lived recently? (That was esepcially helpful for us, but then, we moved from the ghetto.) 
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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm drawn to house 2, but worried all that dark wood would be, well, dark. 
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    I like the feeling of #2 better than #1.  I think the minor annoyance can be overlooked by more sqft and also the more open feeling.  JMO. 
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011
    i like house 2 -- nice built ins!  the washer and dryer can be moved, no?  and it's not like you will be going outside in midwest winters to do laundry.
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  • DG1DG1 member
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    edited December 2011

    So far, I vote House #2. Walking is awesome, but 2 miles isn't bad, especially if it's bike-friendly.  If you buy it, you can knock out part of the wall and actually connect the house to the garage.

    And don't listen to bmom. I LOVE my giant bathroom!

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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    I'd say #2 still, I love the open kitchen, but if you're already waffling on the bathroom issue, you don't want to think later, "I KNEW I should've picked the other one!".
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    The cabinets and ceiling in house 2 are gorgeous!! 

    3 bedrooms?  1 for Mr & Mrs Duckis, 1 for guests, 1 for Zsa!!
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  • *Barbie**Barbie* member
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    edited December 2011
    the proximity to the highway is a dealbreaker for me, so house #1 would be out.

    my *FAVORITE* house that I saw in TX was backed up to a major road. (not a highway, but 2-3 lanes in each direction and a lot of commercial space) - you couldn't *see* the road, but the gorgeous backyard was completely cancelled out by road noise.

    house #2 is pretty (wondering why there isn't a front view), but i'm not liking the whole having to walk your laundry ouside to the garage.

    re: DG - My parents' house is only about 1300sq ft (3 bed/2 bath) - and wasn't too bad growing up with 2 parents/2 kids. they have a partially finished basement and added a second bathroom down there, so that was fantastic. I think it would be a little crowded if you went for more than 2 kids in a house that size, or had less than 1 bathroom - but that's not a bad size house. (then again, this is coming from the person who was looking at 4500sqft houses in TX for 3 people, so take that for what it's worth - we got something that's 2500sqft , but will likely upsize/build if we still live here in the next 7-10 years)


    ETA: of the 3, i like #2 the best - but if you're still "meh", keep looking. remember to look for potential - ugly paint/wall paper/flooring can be changed.
  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Zsa, the commute from houses 2 and 3 will be virtually the same for H. House 1 will be slightly longer, but not by more than 5 minutes or so.

    As far as square footage, our current house is about 2000 and we use less than half of it. We will likely have 1 or 2 kids, and possibly add another dog while in this house. House 1 would be tight, but workable. House 2 has nice big living spaces and smaller bedrooms, which is fine with us. House 3 has larger bedrooms but smaller living spaces.
  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Hmm, front view of house 2, sorry I forgot it.

    *poof* didn't realize the link listed the address.
  • tawillerstawillers member
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    edited December 2011

    My vote is for #2.

  • edited December 2011
    I love #2, it's beautiful. That kitchen!

    #3 would be my second choice, that kitchen is also amazing.

    I would not want to live by the highway, so #1 is out for me.
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  • nicoleg1982nicoleg1982 member
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    edited December 2011
    FWIW, at stbx's house, our laundry room was in the garage and I loved it.  It wasn't heating up the house, the buzzers/doors opening/closing never woke the baby, and we could disrobe nasty yard/hiking/dog clothing in the garage and not trek dirt through the house.
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah, I'm leaning toward 2 as well. When I said the bathrooms weren't spectacular, I just meant that they're not as OMGAMAZING as some of the others we've seen. They're still nice and functional and don't need renovations. The laundry thing is going to bug me, but we're thinking that since the garage is so huge we can finish off a part of it and bust a door between it and one of the bedrooms. It will make for an awkward layout, but it will be workable.

    We're probably going to submit an offer tonight. There's already at least one other couple putting an offer in, and the owners aren't looking at anything until Thursday. So no guarantees, but at least if we don't get it I can say I didn't want to do my laundry outside anyway.
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    Ugh, I hate the offer/counteroffer process but YAY for looking regardless.  :)
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  • DG1DG1 member
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    edited December 2011

    I think I'm leaning toward #2. #3's kitchen is gorgeous, but the ceilings seem low, which can just make everything feel cramped. (Then again, we're tall. Short people may not feel that way.)

    #3 has some weirdness outside, too, but nothing dealbreaker-y. 

    And yeah, like I said, I know you can raise kids in smaller spaces. Heck, the ILs had 2 kids in about 13-1400sf and only one (small) bathroom and a tiny kitchen with just about no storage or work space.  And if you live in Manhattan or something, you probably don't have much choice. But I wouldn't do it if I didn't have to. 

    On the other hand, we are in 2500sf now, and for some reason the boys are always underfoot, like we only use 10sf at a time and just all move around together. It is ridonk. :)

    I do like bigger bedrooms for the kids. I would like for them to be able to play in there, have room for a bed, dresser, AND desk, etc.  I also want most of their toys in their rooms instead of in my living room.  But it just doesn't work that way in my house.

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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    I love all 3 houses. I know this isn't a help, but I'm loving that contemporary look.

    Architecture in FL sucks in comparison to those 3 adorable houses.
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011
    Pictures for #3 aren't working for me except for the pic of the front.  Poo.  #2 is beautiful, but walkability and closet space might win me over to #3.

    All of these houses are really pretty, so I'm guessing that you are opting for aethetics over a little more square footage and I don't think it is a bad idea - less space to air condition.  We midwesterners are just spoiled with the cheap square footage.  I'm pretty sure you could buy a very nice 4,000 sq house here for what you will be spending on 1,500 sq there.
    ETA:  Actually you could probably buy an 8,000 sq house in MY town, but don't move here.  The space isn't worth it.
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    I know what you mean, DG. And I know if we had kids we'd be using a lot more of our space here. Thing is, anything over 1500 square feet here takes you over $1M. The few larger places that are in our price range either have zero yard (absolute dealbreaker), are in really undesirable neighborhoods, or are in such disrepair that they aren't even liveable. It was a major shock to see how tiny the places were when we first started looking, but that's just how people live out here.

    We're still planning to move back east in 5-10 years, so this isn't a permanent home by any stretch. Some day I will have my walk-in closet and giant bathroom. Until then, I'll just spend all my time in that awesome, awesome kitchen.
  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    ::gasp:: Holy hell @ 1M for >1500 sf.
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    I know, O-face. I made a comment to one of H's friends (who is loaded and has lived here his whole life) that a million dollars should get you a lot more than 3 bedrooms, and he laughed at me.
  • dharmabunnydharmabunny member
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    edited December 2011
    From the pictures at least, #2.  Gorgeous living spaces.  The sex. I'm more in the BM line of thinking.  Holing up in a bathroom like an escape is a bad, bad habit.  Especially with limited bathroom space where you need to use the sh!tter (this from a 1 bath family).  Better IMO to have everyone flushed out of their private spaces and interact as a family, entertain as a community.

    Now for the cold, calculating b!tch points to consider.

    I'm all for the most comfortable financial option.  Because there's always hidden costs.  Property tax hikes, expensive repairs, an HOA, job loss or paycut.  Hell, even a bumpy road to kids that involves a RE.

    Also consider resale value later (if it's got multiple offers now, chances are likely when you resell, you'll not have a huge problem with it either).  And is the place/neighborhood a DIY hell?  I can't tell you how terrified I get of dealing with house repairs in our house because the jackhole that lived there before fancied himself a DIYer.  And effed it all up (PVC pipe used in a water main anyone?).  So we end up having three times more work to fix it, or just call the repair dude to get it done right.  Also note geography.  Has this area been the victim of any natural disasters?  Flooding?  Wildfires?  Are you in a floodplane?  Are there natural phenomena like springs in the area?  In your property line?  Do you see any sizeable cracks in the side of the house?  Granted a home inspection will ferret a lot of this out, but there are some things I would not even make an offer if I saw some kinds of substantial damage.

    Have you driven through the neighborhood at night?  Does it seem like a parallel universe?  Would you be terrified of leaving your property line when the sun goes down.

    I'd also definitely not go for #1 for another reason.  A lot of those "green" upgrades are a sucker's bet, and not always thought out too well (bamboo flooring in dry climates cracks and comes unglued like crazy).  Put that up there with granite countertops.  And the solar power may be lovely for the util bill savings.  Until it breaks down.  Then who fixes it?  Do you have to fix it, like can you hop on the grid seemlesly and not have to rely on that solar at all?  Where do you get parts and panels?  Will they still be in production 2-5 years from now?
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  • edited December 2011
    Dang I wish I'd run my home purchase by Dharma! So many good points to think about (and had I done everything she posted above, I would not have bought my house.)
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