i've only been on this board a couple days, but i've noticed a lot of women referring to having a ceremony after you get married by the JOP strictly a vowel renewal? DH and I decided to have a ceremony because we believe that the license is just in the eyes of the law, not God. That's why we're having it done so to me, that's not a vowel renewal. I dunno, I see a few brides wondering what they should do and maybe that's a way of looking at it that most people don't. I dunno, just sayin'