Out of town bags-- unnecessary? nice to have? expected? does it change anything if every single guest is from out of town?
Flowers- worth the savings to DIY (simple) centerpieces or worth it to pay the florist and save sanity?
does a grandma's husband who you don't consider your grandpa (grandparents divorced when you were an adult) get recognized in the program? does he get a bout?
Typical flow of a ceremony? We have a friend marrying us and thus have to come up with our own series of events.
Served dinner or family style by table?
Wine and beer or liquor too? $ isn't a huge concern, ridiculous drunks are a slight concern.
If you're not getting your hair professionally done, are mom's/bm's on their own to find their own hair place if they want theirs professionally done?
Can a rehearsal dinner instead be a big pizza party with all family/guests? Too weird?
I'm just looking for some decisions/input. You don't even have to explain yourself! And feel free to add your own random dilemmas