So my bridesmaids are planning a super-secret-surprise bridal shower for me. All they ask is that I provide them with a guest list of friends and family that I'd like present. So, I'm emailing my MOH with the guest list when I get to the sticky subject of coworkers. I'm really close with 2 of my coworkers and one of my managers. The other manager treats me like a scapegoat/punching bag at work and I have a very strict and professional working relationship with my bosses (the two ladies that own the business I work for). I want to invite the 3 girls that I'm close with, but would feel really uncomfortable if the mean manager and my two bosses were to be there. Is it okay to invite the 3 coworkers I'm close with and omit the other 3?