I have a question about masturbating in marriage...I've always believed it was wrong becalyuse I think it's depriving your spouse of figuring out what pleases you most (and discovering that is fun for us!). Buuut, lately I've had some questions...I have yet to orgasm during sex and took to the internet to figure out how to get one. another board on The Nest suggested I should masturbate first to give myself an orgasm so I can tell my H how to do it. I personally struggle with this alot becuase I don't WANT to touch myself. But now I'm wondering if I'm dooming my sex life with my husband.
what are your thoughts?