So my fiance and I have hit our first wedding roadblock with the issue of having a wedding coordinator. I personally wanted to have one because of the connections she may have that I don't know about plus I am new to New England and I don't know where everything is or who to get in contact with. I live in Massachusetts and the wedding is in Connecticut. He thinks I can do it with the help of my maid of honor which by the way is the only bridesmaid within 100 miles. I think I might just give in to him and not have one but I really get stressed and I don't want to be stressed on or before the wedding. I have a lot going on already with my two children one of whom as bad asthma and a recently diagnosed heart condition, work and school to be a neonatologist. Sorry for the rambling and a little whining but what do you ladies think I should do?