so not your typical "my day" Vent per say....
So a while ago at my shower i had a aunt put me on the spot about not inviting cousins and since her husband wasnt going to be able to make it due to work her son would join her... well since it was in the middle of like 30 people i kinda said "ok well i guess that would be ok.." and then she went on and on about not having my cousins there for a solid 10 minutes till my future in laws managed to change the subject!
Well forward it to 10 days before my wedding and still hadnt heard from another set of aunt/uncle. so my father was helping me out with wedding stuff and called to ask if he was comming and they told him "no we wont be able to make it so instead were sending x and y in our places" (mind you these are their 40 yr olds kids) i started to flip out on my dad telling him its not there place to add their kids to the wedding, its not just a free meal "just because" and my dad explained that we werent doing cousins to keep it fair... (if i invited all my cousins we would be add 100 to the guest list...) and they commented on how the aunt was bringing her son so they dont see why its a big deal to have there son and his wife there as welll with them..... wait.. i thought they werent comming? oh thats right magically they are comming cause they "all go everywhere together when it comes to things like weddings" EVEN IF THEY ARENT INVITED! my dad explained what the reason behind not inviiting x and y. and that the other aunt i wasnt to thrilled with due to the way she brought it up...
the anwser Aunt and uncle gave him?? "oh well if shes worried about food, the FOUR of us will just come to the ceremony and then leave after" again my dad clarified, im sorry they are at not able to accomidate the extra seats at this time... their responce... "ill let you know this weekend..."... MY WEDDING IS IN 10 DAYS!!! by the time i get the response it will be 6 days! WTF is wrong with these people that they feel they can do what they want?!?! They are known to go to every free meal in town that the churchs put on for thsoe who cant afford a hot meal just cause its free!! And yet they drive around with a brand new truck, 4 wheelers and snow mobiles! Im SOOO tired of the family members i told my dads im done with them, ill just call up and explain to them again the TWO of them were invited. And i need an answer tonight. and if i cant reach them if htey contact my dad hes just going to tellt hem "im sorry she already turned all her numbers in, due to the lack of time between no and the wedding we wont be able to accomidate the TWO of you, let alone the four of htem....
alright... vent over... i know its my day, but its about my guests, but at this point i dont even want them their because they are inconsiderate and rude...
