So.... I have a really close, completely platonic male friend who I would love to have in my wedding party. However, I already have 9 female bridesmaids. So, since I'm planning an adult-only ceremony, I was thinking of having him as the flower girl. He loves the idea, and I think it would be hilarious (I'm never one to shy away from a little harmless shock value). My fiance is alright with it too- but he's worried if it could possibly be a little too "different" for some people attending. Thoughts?