Ok maybe I'm overreacting but my bachelorette is this weekend, and it's been planned by my bridal party. My sister just said to me, "we're not expected to pay for you are we?" and of course I'm not going to say yes but I'm really bummed. Every bachelorette I've planned (including for 2 of the girls out of the 5 planning mine) we all paid for everthing for the bride. I guess it's good I found out now rather than looking dumb when the dinner bill came.