MeganL2022
Joined on 05-02-2010
21 Points
Should I be jealous of her? What do I do?
Here's the situation:
My husband, S, has a really good female friend I will refer to as B. He considers B a friend and talks to her frequently on the phone and texts her. I'm not always around when they talk and don't always see the texts, but I can't help but be a little bit jealous.
S thinks of her as a sister, and argues that it's okay for him to say, "I love you" to her when they end phone calls because of this, even though I've said it makes me uncomfortable. He says that if I was as close to my male friends as he is with B, then I would understand. But I can't help feeling this way.
Should I be jealous of her, or am I being paranoid? I'm not really sure how to handle this anymore. I don't think they are involved in anything but a friend relationship, but these feelings won't go away.
What do you think is going on, just from reading this? Is this a new friend, or does this only suddenly bother her, or are they acting differently all of a sudden? Or did she date, get engaged to, and marry someone who was doing something that made her feel really awful all without bothering to say anything or do anything about it?