Hi ladies. I need to bounce some stuff off of you all.
There are a lot of things done in weddings that I would prefer not to do, just because they're not meaningful or significant to me, and/or they would probably make me or my attendants uncomfortable. I'll list them, and can you all tell me how you would react if this were done at a wedding you were attending? I can take full honest criticism; if you think it's crappy that I'm against it, please tell me why.
1. No veil.
2. See each other before the ceremony.
3. No bouquet/garter toss.
4. No spotlight dances (would each dance with parents and in-laws, but not as a solo-spotlight thing... and no bridal party dance)
That's all I can think of at the moment. So tell me; would any of those be frowned upon? I'm thinking people might be miffed about the last one in particular.