my FSIL is a very sweet woman... who just happens to believe that the world is going to end in 2012. She frequently talks about the UFO's she saw while jogging this morning and tells me the types of energies im radiating and how she would like me to do a spiritual cleanse with her before the giant earthquake comes... and so on. In my opinion, more power to her for finding something she is passionate about and believes in, however, i dont know how to respond when she says these kind of things to me. I asked her to be a maid in my wedding because i really want to have a relationship with her (she is Fi's only sibling) but i am at a total loss on how to talk to her. I am really shy naturally and i just dont know what to say to change the subject or respond or gloss over it without offending her. and i really dont know whats gonna happen when she meets my other maids. do you guys have any advice for me? any phrases i could use that show her i respect her belifes but that they make me feel uncomfortable? cause i tried telling her i was uncomfortable and thats when she told me my energies were off balance and started chanting.
also, FI isnt helping because he just tells her she is an idiot to her face