I already know who I want to be my flower girl and ring bearers (we have 2). But I haven't actually asked them yet. The flower girl is my cousin's oldest daughter who is about 4 problem is they live 3 hours away and the most we talk is when I see them once a year unless they come to town more. We talk on FB but that's about it. Same thing with one of the ring bearer's it's my other cousin's son. So how do I ask them if their kids can be in my wedding without waiting till Dec when they are in town. Any ideas?
Could I send them presents (for the kids) with a note attached? Or is that too informal?