My husband and I are already married, because I wanted to be married before our baby was born. We had a very small ceremony in my mother in law's living room. It was a disaster!! The preacher couldn't read, and read the vows all wrong!! My brother was completely wasted and wouldn't shut up throughout the ceremony, and apparently my husband and I were the only people in the room who thought it would be polite to turn our cell phones OFF during the ceremony because phones were ringing through the entire ceremony!! I have always wanted a big, pretty, white wedding, and I would like to do a kind of "do-over" ceremony. However, I am wondering if there is any other vows or readings that the preacher or whoever can say, because we are already married. Maybe some sort of vow renewal reading? Is this a bad idea, because we are already married and everyone knows it?? Is this pointless for me to send all this money on a ceremony when I'm already married? Please help!