I have known a guest coming to the wedding that has been dating a guy since about 10 years. I must say I have never liked her boyfriend, and really have no interest to have him there at my wedding, especially paying for him to eat filet mignon! When it was time to create the guest list, we decided that unless you were married or engaged, we were not inviting significant others. Biggest reason being that if we did, we were looking at over 220 people. The place we are getting married just barely holds 200, so to play it safe, we made this decision. All of our friends were totally cool about it. When the invites went out, one guest became very angry with me. I explained to her the same thing I had said for months that we just can't allow you and not other family/friends. I said he is welcome to come after dinner for dancing or the afterparty. She also told me that 'he didn't even care about coming anyways' I thought it was over until I have heard through my immediate family that she is bad mouthing me, my fiance and my wedding! How do I approach her (without turning bridezilla) about this?