My mother is planning my shower for me. The issue we are having is that my future brother in laws are 7 and 10.. as are my fiance's cousins there all under the age of 10 and theres about 6 of them. Is it really necesary to have them at the shower?. They wont be coming to the wedding but they were at the engagement party. The places we are thinking of really arent children friendly. Im really stuck on this! please help