I just found out 3 days ago from one of my old high school friends that a mutual friend of ours died in his sleep. We are all heartbroken as he was only 36, and until we get a tox result back we have no idea what happened, he just basically went to bed and didn't wake up. We are all really shaken up especially his best friend (we all went to the same high school and have remained friends throughout the years). What is even harder is the fact that his parents can't afford funeral expenses, so naturally we all want to help out and do what we can to help.
On top of a fundraiser we have organized at his favorite local hangout, I was thinking of having a donation jar at my wedding reception which is in 2 weeks, then at the end of the reception give the money to my friend who would give to Brad's parents to help with anything they need. I could either do that, or if it's not too late maybe find a way to tell people that instead of gifts, we would appreciate a donation in Brad's name to help with costs. I guess what I am asking advice on is what would be the best way to go about this? Thanks so much, I really appreciate your input!