Let me start out by saying, my MIL is a POS. I've learned that she dropped my husband off as a baby at his father's house because she "didn't want him." And she remarried 3 times after his father and didn't invite my husband to any of the weddings when he lived in the SAME TOWN.
So we've had a vow renewal ceremony planned for this summer since we never had a big to-do and our families weren't able to attend our court-house wedding. My husband calls his mom last night to make sure she's coming and to give her hotel information. She informs him that she will not attend our wedding. Why? "Because I'm already going on vacation and I'm not coming up for just a wedding." That's what she freakin told him! I couldn't believe it. My husband has been trying to be nice to her for years, but last night, he got so upset. I seriously want to call her up and give her a piece of my mind, but I know that would just make things worse. HER MOTHER is coming up to our ceremony! A 75 year old woman is driving 9 hours to come to it. GRR I'm so mad!