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Shower Invitees Question

zappatinizappatini
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We just sent out our invites last weekend and have already begun receiving back RSVPs.  My BM are beginning to put together details for a shower.  Should we invite those guests that we know are not going to make the wedding?

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  • squirrlysquirrly member
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    So long as they actually were invited to the wedding, you can.  It should really only be the guests that are super close to you, though - not your whole guest list.
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  • banana468banana468 member
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    That really shouldn't have to do with the shower invite list.  It should be the closest people to you and/or your FI.   Yes,all shower guests should be invited to the wedding but they don't have to be attending it to be invited to the shower.
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  • barbbhowwbarbbhoww member
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    We had some people only come to the shower because they couldn't make it to the wedding.  It was actually super nice of them!
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  • PharmacyBridePharmacyBride
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    I would still want an invitation.. especially if they are only missing it because they are busy (vs. OOT guests)
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  • zappatinizappatini
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    Thanks Ladies!!
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