Just want to write, I can't believe that I only have 12 days. The one thing I learned over the last year and what to pass on, is do what you want. Do you and your significant other. Do what is in your hearts and makes you happy. I have definitely seen posts that indicate this, but as brides I think that some of us end up trying to make others happy and forget about ourselves. It is about two people coming together and joining as one. People can spout their opinions all day and night, but always go back and ask, is this what I want? To the current brides and future brides, I wish nothing but the best for you, your significant other, and your day. We all deserve it!