Hi everyone, I need your help! I'm the MOH and the bride wants us to throw a Jack and Jill for her. She doesn't want any gifts because she already has everything. So in place of gifts she wants cash. Is there any way I can write something on the invite that doesn't scream "Give them cash!" She wants me to write something like "I lieu of gifts please donate to the honeymoon fund." Is this rude? Is there any proper etiquette for this?