We are having a formal eveing twilight wedding in a vineyard by the beach and Our color theme is shades of blue .... and now 2 weeks before Our wedding MOG desides that she is wearing a short black dress to the wedding and I reserve black dresses for guest ok but not for MOG or MOB or anyone int the bridal party . I am having a real hard time with her wearing black and i dont like it but if i say anything iknow i will get told no i wont change it so should i even bother and just be unhappy at my wedding being that she is also not going along with the plans of the day for pictures and stuff ect.... i am so lost and unhappy i just wanna give up his fmaily has been fighting us on everything for the 2 years we got engaged and want things their way and their schedule and not our way how will i ever get thru this .wed date aug 4 2012