My mom is really putting me on edge and I'm not diplotic so maybe you guys can help me with the right words. My mom decided she wanted to get ordianed to do my wedding yes its a sweet thought but I really just wanted a Justice of the peace because my mom doesnt follow any directions and really makes everything her show. So she badgered me and finally I gave up and said she could. Now I made a point of telling her since she wanted to do this I really wanted her dress to match or compliment our wedding colors. She promises me she'll wear what ever I want I didnt really want to pick it out for her but go together and look at stuff. Next thing I know she send me a link for a "possible" dresses and I hate it, doesnt compliment or match anything its full of shiney beads the color is disgusting and I tell her that I really hate it but I will book us in and we can go to the stores and look together she tells me too bad shes already ordered it. It clashes with everything I have bought and what my bridesmaids have worked on and at this point I dont want her to officiate but I also know telling her she cant will cause an uproar. Is it too out of line to insist she either get something that is more intune with the wedding or not officiate