My cousin is getting married in July and we just received our save-the-dates. I was going to ask her if my boyfriend could come to the wedding, but not sure if it's proper etiquette.
We've been together for a year and may or may not be engaged before her wedding (the timing of course is up to my boyfriend). He is pretty much a part of the family - goes to all the family functions and works for the family company. However, he has never met my cousin - we live in Oregon, she lives in Washington DC and the wedding is in LA.
I'm pretty sure my cousin would be fine with it, but just want to know the best way to go about asking - if it's ok to ask.